Friday, October 28, 2016

bestfriend?

Don't fall in love with your best friend...





The amount of times you hear someone say, "I am so happy that I fell in love with my best friend" or "If you're in love with your best friend, than you're the luckiest person in the world" is pretty unreal. It's safe to say that literally every girl dreams is that one day they can fall in love with their best friend. I mean in all reality, falling in love with your best friend means you're pretty set, your best friend who knows YOU, understands YOU, believes in YOU, is truthful to YOU and most importantly accepts YOU.. When someones your best friend, you spend ever second, every minute and every hour wanting to speak to them, wanting to see them, wanted to be with them. When someones your best friend, you get to learn who they are, where they're from and where they wanted to go. When someones your best friend, you get to be comfortable in front of one another. When someone is your best friend, you become reliant on them to make you happy. When someone is your best friend, you grow together, day by day.When someone is your best friend, you know exactly how they feel just by looking them in the face, you know what makes them laugh, what makes them happy, what makes them angry, and what makes them sad. This person was the one who constantly reminded you that to be happy, you need to sacrifice what you want for what you deserve. You fall in love with the way that person talks and act. You fall in love even with the things you hate about that person, like the way they set their priorities, their attitude, the way they can never pick what they feel like eating. You fall in love with someone who will push you to fight for what you want. You fall in love with someone who will sooner than later become your family, your person, your backbone, your confidante, your love, your life... Doesn't that sound exactly like everything anyone could ever hope so? It is great. It is everything you ask for. It is everything you've ever dreamed off. Until you lose it.. Not only will you loss your person and love, but you'll also lose your best friend. That person you spent every second, every minute and every hour speaking too, seeing and being with will not be there anymore. That person you know and grew with is no where there anymore. That person you could reach your hand out and their hand would be there every time will no longer be there, every time. When you lose that person, you cant look them in the eyes and say you're going to be okay because you know they aren't going to be there anymore. 





It’s hard to break up with the best friend that you have fallen in love with because you lose two persons; the person you love and your person.